[djnat]

I respect your commitment to this I mean lets face this is a really really tough decision, most guys would be hitting their head over. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with kissing before marriage, sex is the problem though. I reckon love should come before sex, but today people want sex than love (but mostly its just sex).

But still c'mon man you're 14 you've got years and years to think about marriage, see how you feel about this in a couple of years. Take it from me you're too young to make a lifelong commitment of marriage when you're still growing.