[krishanson]

Originally Posted by djnat

I respect your commitment to this I mean lets face this is a really really tough decision, most guys would be hitting their head over. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with kissing before marriage, sex is the problem though. I reckon love should come before sex, but today people want sex than love (but mostly its just sex).

But still c'mon man you're 14 you've got years and years to think about marriage, see how you feel about this in a couple of years. Take it from me you're too young to make a lifelong commitment of marriage when you're still growing.

I agree. Nothing is wrong with kissing before marriage. It was just a commitment me and her chose to do. It's not something guaranteeing us to get married. We're just sayin, as long as we are boyfriend and girlfriend, we won't kiss. But if marriage ever comes into play, after that we'll kiss. And yeah, you're very right about sex.

I know I'm only 14 but I just don't want to switch between girlfriend to girlfriend. I'd rather wait, find someone I truly have a lot of feelings for, then whatever happens happens. It's in the Lord's hands. But all I'm saying is, she's not just a girlfriend I'll go out with for a while for a temporary thing. Because having a real relationship is pointless if you think you'll probably break up. You get what I'm saying?