Dating?

[Crippa]

Originally Posted by krishanson

I view it like this... Why date someone who you'll break up with? Everything you do with her will be completely meaningless and you'll both get hurt in the end. So, I waited a long time. She eventually liked me and we agreed to wait to go out. So, we waited 5 or so months and now we're happier then ever. And I expect marriage.

LMAO.

You have probably JUST hit puberty and you think you're already in love, hahaha. You've got ALOT of learning to do from now until you reach the age of 18, let alone reaching the age of about 21-25 when it actually becomes serious. You say why date someone who you'll break up with? Mate, teenage relationships NEVER last, NEVER. I'll tell you why? because you're too immature to understand each other and how to feel for each other, and as you get older you want to be with different people and experiment more.

Anyway, I don't date looking for a relationship right at this moment, I'm just "playing the field" in some respects. I like how I am at the moment, I just got out of a relationship and I'm really enjoying being single. I can do whatever I want with whoever I want, and I don't need to buy them anything, ever :lol: .

[detrimental]

Originally Posted by krishanson

I'm 14

And I expect marriage.

we decided to not kiss until we are married. So we can have a pure godly relationship and we'd have a lot to look forward to.

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh the beauty of being young and naive.

10 dollars says you find out that she's kissed somebody else while you were together, you break up, and she takes on her natural female desires and goes for the c0ck by the time she's 16.

LMAO @ THIS... This is pure comedy. Greatest thread ever.

[Luichi]

^^^
the truth. its more of the truth than Paul Pierce

[liganj koji zakucava]

Originally Posted by krishanson

we decided to not kiss until we are married. So we can have a pure godly relationship and we'd have a lot to look forward to.
If we just go ahead and have kiss and even have sex, whats left? You've done it all right? Then you get bored and break up.

What makes you think you won`t get bored of her in marriage? Because it`s basically what marriage does to people... even when they love each other... that`s why people cheat on each other... even Kobe did it...

Originally Posted by krishanson

Yeah, well, if playing that game takes what it takes... Fine.
In fact, if I never get married, I'll never have sex. I'd rather do whats morally right and pleasing to God then do something for my own pleasure.

So you wanna please God, but not your girlfirend? :ROFL:

Why is it morally right to have as much sex as you want in marriage (and not just to have kids), and immoral if you do it before marriage, whether with the same person or more people? Wouldn`t God want us to reproduce as much as we can so he would have more worshipers?

[shorties7]

DUDE,
so u plan on nailing ONE chick in your WHOLE life?

Originally Posted by krishanson

Think about it like this... (I'm not trying to be perverted in anyway)
You (I don't literally mean you) go and have sex out of marriage. To have sex, you gotta go the a night club and beg and plead a ugly hoodrat so you can have meaningless sex and have a kid you didn't want. Or maybe a disease you didn't want.

Me on the other hand, I can be happily married and have sex with my wife any night of the week. Or could be morning, lunch, whatever. The option is there. And I can have children WITH my wife and be a committed father and raise my kids to be Men of God. Or Women of God. whichever happens. And I could look my wife in the eyes and honestly say, I saved this for you and only you.

Which would you rather have? I don't know about you but I like the 2nd option.

ummmm
u do realize those aren't the only 2 options and that there are better options right?
like going out with nice girls that u noe nailing them, moving on, and the wen u get older do that same thing but look for one to keep

[TheJapazilianKid]

Damn, we´ve got some pure assholes in this thread..

Anyways.

How long have you been going out with her?
If it´s been only a couple of months, don´t call it love or whatever.
You and your girl have to go through a long process, who knows how long, until you really start to know her and all that, then maybe you know you have someone love.

Don´t say from day 1 you love her. You care about her but saying that you love her and trust her and all that jazz on the first day sounds odd to me.
You just need time to lapse and see if she´s the right one.

The commitment about the kissing.... ehh, that´s your choice, but there´s nothing wrong with kissing anyways. You´re probably thinking it´s going to lead to sex, but as long as you keep what you got in your pants, then you should be good.



All I got to say is, don´t think of marriage and all that future stuff, just think of your situation now.



And I have no fucking clue about love and all that, I´m only 15... so this is all opinion....

[DeAdLyPoTaTo]

Religion is just an attempted population control system



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[whitemamba™]

I'm 15, but I always fuck up.

Like the chick I'm wanting right now. We've been really great friends for a long time now, but just recently I started liking her a lot more. I don't think she likes me, but I can't stop thinking about what is going on. Oh well. I'll either forget about it in a few weeks or something will happen, I guess.

[nC4]

Originally Posted by whitemamba™

I'm 15, but I always fuck up.

Like the chick I'm wanting right now. We've been really great friends for a long time now, but just recently I started liking her a lot more. I don't think she likes me, but I can't stop thinking about what is going on. Oh well. I'll either forget about it in a few weeks or something will happen, I guess.

You're in the friend zone son, good luck getting out of it.

[OpalJagger]

Originally Posted by krishanson

Think about it like this... (I'm not trying to be perverted in anyway)
You (I don't literally mean you) go and have sex out of marriage. To have sex, you gotta go the a night club and beg and plead a ugly hoodrat so you can have meaningless sex and have a kid you didn't want. Or maybe a disease you didn't want.

Me on the other hand, I can be happily married and have sex with my wife any night of the week. Or could be morning, lunch, whatever. The option is there. And I can have children WITH my wife and be a committed father and raise my kids to be Men of God. Or Women of God. whichever happens. And I could look my wife in the eyes and honestly say, I saved this for you and only you.

Which would you rather have? I don't know about you but I like the 2nd option.

Let me start off by saying I'm a Christian...and your first paragraph almost embarrasses me. I'll give you a pass because you're only 14, but saying that everyone who has sex has to do it with an ugly hoodrat, have kids and get a disease is tantamount to the Muslims extremists in the cells in Guantanamo in Harold and Kumar 2 making fun of Americans and their obsession with donuts. Both are gross stereotypes of a group of individuals, and based on fallacies and misinterpretations.

Shorties7 said it best in my eyes. Most of my friends have had sex with other good friends, and very rarely someone they barely know (though it does happen, albeit with protection of course, so no babies or diseases). The best thing to do if you have sex before marriage is to do it with a friend.

Anyways, I'm 19, I had a girlfriend for about 5 months, I told her no sex, and we didn't do it. It takes a bit to keep it in your pants, but at least try the kissing part with your girlfriend. Hell, you're probably breaking a rule just having a girlfriend if you're acting so puritan.

Originally Posted by whitemamba™

I'm 15, but I always fuck up.

Like the chick I'm wanting right now. We've been really great friends for a long time now, but just recently I started liking her a lot more. I don't think she likes me, but I can't stop thinking about what is going on. Oh well. I'll either forget about it in a few weeks or something will happen, I guess.

I was in the same position as you for the last few years. That girl's my best friend now. :lol: