Dating?

krishanson · 05-09-2008, 01:51 PM

Do you do it for comfort or the hope of finding love?

I'm curious because half the girls at my school always have to have a boyfriend. Even if they don't like em. Some guys are like that too.

OpalJagger · 05-09-2008, 06:23 PM

Right now, and for anyone at an age younger than 25 I'd say, you do it for the comfort of having someone, simply cause you're not likely to marry anyone at a young age. Once you're older though, you do it to find love. If I could have a girlfriend all the time, I would too, but I haven't since last summer.

krishanson · 05-09-2008, 06:30 PM

I'm 14 and I don't do it for comfort. I waited 8th months of liking my girlfriend before I asked her out to make sure I really wanted to.
I view it like this... Why date someone who you'll break up with? Everything you do with her will be completely meaningless and you'll both get hurt in the end. So, I waited a long time. She eventually liked me and we agreed to wait to go out. So, we waited 5 or so months and now we're happier then ever. And I expect marriage.

Airsim15 · 05-09-2008, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by krishanson

I'm 14 and I don't do it for comfort. I waited 8th months of liking my girlfriend before I asked her out to make sure I really wanted to.
I view it like this... Why date someone who you'll break up with? Everything you do with her will be completely meaningless and you'll both get hurt in the end. So, I waited a long time. She eventually liked me and we agreed to wait to go out. So, we waited 5 or so months and now we're happier then ever. And I expect marriage.

dude ur 14................................................ ....

shorties7 · 05-09-2008, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by krishanson

I'm 14 and I don't do it for comfort. I waited 8th months of liking my girlfriend before I asked her out to make sure I really wanted to.
I view it like this... Why date someone who you'll break up with? Everything you do with her will be completely meaningless and you'll both get hurt in the end. So, I waited a long time. She eventually liked me and we agreed to wait to go out. So, we waited 5 or so months and now we're happier then ever. And I expect marriage.

u think that
but my aunt dated this dude for like 6 or 7 years (they're first loves)and she just dumped him like nothing one day
i really thought he would become my uncle
he was a real cool dude too

DeAdLyPoTaTo · 05-09-2008, 07:26 PM

*waits for the players to come in here and say it's all about the poonana*

T-Mac_Attack · 05-09-2008, 07:26 PM

The answer: 14.

Everyone is horny as **** at that age, and so are you, don't lie..

Billy32 · 05-09-2008, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by krishanson

I'm 14 and I don't do it for comfort. I waited 8th months of liking my girlfriend before I asked her out to make sure I really wanted to.
I view it like this... Why date someone who you'll break up with? Everything you do with her will be completely meaningless and you'll both get hurt in the end. So, I waited a long time. She eventually liked me and we agreed to wait to go out. So, we waited 5 or so months and now we're happier then ever. And I expect marriage.

I'm Catholic and looking at your signature so are you. If you think like and think your going to get married to this girl/woman at the age of 14 then you must be a very faithful Catholic because at the age of 14 your hormones are going crazy. No offense.

krishanson · 05-09-2008, 08:07 PM

ha I'm Christian. And not horny. ha Well, you're going to all laugh at me but I don't care so I'll just say it, we decided to not kiss until we are married. So we can have a pure godly relationship and we'd have a lot to look forward to.
If we just go ahead and have kiss and even have sex, whats left? You've done it all right? Then you get bored and break up.
Being 14 has nothing to do with it. I don't think you're always going to get married to your girlfriend or boyfriend. I just think you should take it slow and try your hardest to stay together for as long as possible. Thats why my expectations are marriage.

djnat · 05-09-2008, 08:13 PM

I respect your commitment to this I mean lets face this is a really really tough decision, most guys would be hitting their head over. Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with kissing before marriage, sex is the problem though. I reckon love should come before sex, but today people want sex than love (but mostly its just sex).

But still c'mon man you're 14 you've got years and years to think about marriage, see how you feel about this in a couple of years. Take it from me you're too young to make a lifelong commitment of marriage when you're still growing.